Emotional self-care

How to take care of yourself?

Emotional self-care is caring for your emotional needs by identifying what it is you are feeling and then moving forward in a way that honors yourself and those emotions. When our emotional self-care needs are not being addressed, we tend to feel frustrated and burnt-out, leaving us with a feeling of, “how the hell did I get myself into this mess?” and no real plan to climb out.⁣

Here are more ways to start incorporating emotional self-care into your daily life:⁣
* Take a few deep breaths, especially before expressing your feelings⁣
* Learn to say No and serve yourself first⁣
* Protect your energy from others⁣
* Create boundaries that feel good to set and encourage others to do the same⁣
* Stop over-explaining yourself to others⁣
* Reserve the word Sorry only for those moments when you’re truly sorry⁣
* Call on others for help when you start to feel overwhelmed⁣
* Accept compliments without argument or pushback, just a simple Thank You⁣
* Experience your emotions without judgment, guilt, or embarrassment⁣
* Give yourself the grace to try again when moments don’t go as planned, ⁣

This is a practice, a very intentional practice. It will not happen overnight but daily purposeful practices will bring you changes.

By: Mily Gomez

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